It is common practice after sensual activity to take a hot shower or hot bath. When your nerves are heightened because of pleasure, it's as if hot water can never be too hot.
As a sexual and spiritual woman, i've experienced how open and aware we become as a result of sex. Sex is amazing stress relief, pumps the creative (and otherwise) juices, can open us up when life shuts us down, and helps us to connect to others more deeply.
And while your intentions for sexual pleasure may be sincere, there is a risk that your partner's may not be -- fucking because of their depression...anger...jealousy...sadness...addiction...loneliness...manipulation...or more.
After a night (or day) of sex, your foggy mind, or feelings of being "off", tired or detached, may not simply be as a result of dehydration or exhaustion.
Thus, I decided to focus my work on the Sex Positive community because:
You can always add things like goat milk, white flowers, fresh spring wisteria, lavender, hyssop, basil, or mint to your bath to make it spiritually atoning. But I prefer to create herbal bath-time brews that are unique for every individual.